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What if you could wake up tomorrow and your marriage felt safe, secure, and connected?
Imagine…
- Conversations felt easier
- Resentment was a thing of the past
- You trusted each other more
- You felt desired again
- You laughed together more
- You felt like you were on the same team again…
That marriage is closer than you think
You Could Be One Conversation Away From Feeling Chosen Again...
But only if you’re willing to learn the principles that help couples move from resentment to repair, distance to connection, and roommates back to partners.
Choosing Us will show you why relationships struggle, how trust is rebuilt, and what it takes to create a marriage where both partners feel chosen and cherished.
The happiest marriages aren’t the ones that never struggle. They’re the ones that never stop choosing each other.
Again. And again. And again.
This book is your invitation to do exactly that.
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- You still love your spouse, but things haven't felt the same lately.
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| “Should I Stay or Go?” Marital Inventory | $250 |
| The Forgiven Spouse Workshop (Sept. 10th) | $100 |
| Entry to win 1:1 session with Jonathan | $300 |
| The Intimacy Renewal Workshop (Oct. 8th) | $100 |
| Enlightened Marriage 6-Week Intensive (Starts Nov. 4th) | $1,500 |
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| “Should I Stay or Go?” Marital Inventory | $250 |
| The Forgiven Spouse Workshop (Sept. 10th) | $100 |
| Entry to win 1:1 session with Jonathan | $300 |
| The Intimacy Renewal Workshop (Oct. 8th) | $100 |
| Enlightened Marriage 6-Week Intensive (Starts Nov. 4th) | $1,500 |
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8 Lessons That Could Change Your Marriage Forever
- 01 Why most couples train each other to feel rejected
- 02 The single message every spouse needs to hear
- 03 The hidden reason reassurance stops working
- 04 Why conflict isn't your real problem
- 05 The mistake that slowly destroys emotional safety
- 06 How to rebuild trust after betrayal
- 07 Why feeling chosen creates attraction
- 08 The difference between surviving and thriving together
“The only message worth sending your spouse is this: ‘I choose you.’
Everything else is just a different way of saying it.”
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Before I sign off, there’s one last thing I want you to know. What I’m most excited about isn’t the release of this book. It’s meeting you. When Choosing Us launches on November 3rd, we’ll begin our six-week Chosen & Cherished Marriage Intensive together.
That will be our time to work through these ideas, answer your questions, and help you build a marriage where both partners feel chosen and cherished.
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In solutions and strength,
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Frequently asked questions
What is Choosing Us about?
Choosing Us is a relationship-focused book by Jonathan Van Viegen that explores why couples slowly drift apart—and what it actually takes to reconnect, rebuild trust, and create a healthier partnership.
Who is this book for?
This book is for couples in every stage of a relationship:
- married couples,
- engaged partners,
- people rebuilding after conflict,
- or anyone who wants a deeper emotional connection
Is this book based on real experience?
Yes. Jonathan Van Viegen draws from over a decade of experience inside the therapy room, working directly with couples and relationship dynamics.
Will this book help if our relationship is struggling?
The book was specifically written for people who feel disconnected, stuck in repeated arguments, emotionally distant, or unsure how to move forward together.
Is this a religious or clinical book?
No. Choosing Us is written in a practical, accessible, and human way. It combines real-life insight, emotional understanding, and actionable relationship tools without feeling overly academic.
What formats are available?
The book is currently available in hardcover edition. Availability may vary depending on the retailer.
Where can I buy the book?
You can purchase the book through major retailers including:
- Amazon
- Barnes & Noble
- Walmart
- Target
- Audible
- Bookshop.org
Do I receive bonuses with my purchase?
Yes. Depending on the promotion, your purchase may include bonus guides, downloadable resources, or access to exclusive content.