The Forgiven Spouse Manifesto – Part 1
August 12, 2026
You get to decide which emotions you attach to your spouse’s identity — be that the positive ones, or the negative ones.
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August 17, 2026
THE DESIRE MANIFESTO: I Never Start A Sentence With “I Need”.
August 7, 2026
The more you talk about your needs, the less your spouse wants to meet them.
Don’t End Your Marriage Just to End the Pain
July 29, 2026
When your spouse is leaning out…
Don’t beg them to stay… Give them a reason to wait instead.
July 20, 2026
How you respond matters more than you realize.
THE INTIMACY MANIFESTO: What Happens When Couples Stop Liking Each Other
July 15, 2026
When you wake up and realize that nothing you’ve been doing is bringing intimacy back into your marriage… It’s discouraging. You ask. You try. You have the conversation.
The real reason they won’t go to therapy… It’s probably not what you think.
July 13, 2026
But the real cork in the bottle is the belief that if they try, they’ll fail.
Why our arguments don’t scare us anymore… We still disagree – but we don’t let it own us.
July 6, 2026
We’ve learned how to make each other feel safe while we’re in it.
This is why your spouse isn’t changing… It’s not the request… it’s the delivery.
June 29, 2026
You can’t complain your way into a better marriage.
Marriage isn’t about getting your needs met… Here’s the better way to do it.
June 22, 2026
As adults, we’ve lost the innocence of asking for our deepest desires in the healthiest way I know.
The marriage advice I disagree with most… “Taking space” almost broke them apart.
June 16, 2026
This is how quickly it can turn your life around.