Marriage should make you feel chosen and cherished.
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Jonathan Van Viegen (MFT) is one of the fastest-growing voices in modern relationships. As the Founder of The Van Viegen Institute, he helps couples rebuild trust, emotional safety, intimacy, and connection through his signature “Chosen & Cherished Method”.
A sought-after speaker and coach, Jonathan’s workshops, writing, and millions of views across social media are leading a growing movement around conscious marriage, emotional responsibility, and how to build relationships that last.
The Relationship Book Everyone’s Talking About
After captivating millions online with his relationship insights, Jonathan Van Viegen’s Choosing Us is the must-read relationship book of 2026 for couples who want to rebuild trust, emotional safety, and a marriage that feels chosen and cherished.
Real couples. Real change.
Stories from couples who chose repair over resentment, connection over conflict, and each other as they built their Enlightened Marriage.
